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An Introduction: Some Words of Wisdom from 'BM.Com'

 

The first three items were written in the summer/autumn of 2004 when I first set up this website:

 

1. On the Iraq War and Everyday things: A Buddhist perspective by Brian's friend Tom Short, visit www.brianmay.com/brian/brianssb/experts.html#buddhism  

My comments: 

I really like this because Tom is clearly talking a great deal of sense. Parallels have been drawn between Orthodox Christianity – my faith – and a stream of Buddhism – I believe the Mahayana. Therefore it’s of no surprise to me that I find common ground in the things he says. I’ve always found it hard to be insular or parochial in my outlook, maybe because I travelled a lot at a young age. Whilst it is understandable that we feel outrage when something attacks our way of life, we must also take account of the fact that there’s really only one race – the human race. Orthodoxy was not affected by the changes in Christianity brought about by the Reformation in the West, but has nevertheless fallen prey to being delineated along nationalist lines. Many Greeks and Russians are fascinated – or bewildered – when they find an English person like me who has converted to Orthodoxy. Many others understand my standpoint completely. What we have to preserve is unity. This is always subject to crisis, because we are wondering who ‘belongs’ in our church. One conversation a few years ago brings ideas into perspective: Someone said ‘Are we English worshipping in an English church or Russians worshipping in a Russian church?’ to which a wise reply came, ‘We are English and Russians together worshipping in an Orthodox church’. If we stick to this, we can’t be partisan.

What Tom says on daily routine is also interesting – I hate washing up (and ironing!) A Christian perspective would be that we don’t perform these tasks for God anymore and that they have therefore become a drudgery.

The closing statement about the wolf is both profound and true. 

 2.   Link no longer available: Brian wrote in response to a letter on the subject of facing fear. ‘There’s nothing to fear except fear itself’ as they used to say on Radio Caroline. I was fearful about placing my personal story on a website – what would anyone who doesn’t know me think about it? I noted that Brian was very interested in Native American thought and I remembered a book I’d delved into when I was younger called ‘The Gospel of the Red Man’. In it there was a command that you shouldn’t judge your neighbour until you’ve walked a mile in his moccasins, or something like that. I saw the hand of God in both the building and launching of this site, even when there were hitches – so I stayed with it.

 3. Link no longer available: Brian wrote on the influence of music. He was responding to letters relating simple – but inspiring – stories about the effect of hearing one Queen song in bringing about a life-changing action. Other people write to him after years of being a loyal fan, having remembered this or that concert – I should be one of those. But my ‘Queen story’ is different from either – I’ve now come to accept that, albeit reluctantly. Having found the lyrics of ‘Some Day, One Day’ when the writing of my story was almost finished, I realised that, irritatingly, I didn’t remember the song. There was, in reality, very little from those first four albums that I did remember. So I sent off for a copy of Queen II, which was instantly switched to the track on arrival. I do have a vague recollection of it (couched after ‘The White Queen’, part of which I had remembered). I’ll definitely not forget it now. Listening to the whole album again, I remembered that as a teenager I became completely caught up in this world of the White Queen, the Black Queen, the Fairy Feller and Nevermore – I began to get an insight into my thinking when I got rid of the albums; a part of me – as compensation for the loss of my mother? Or a recognition that my adolescent life, as it was, had gone forever? Maybe both. It’s not just been a case of realising that I was wrong – I’ve known that for years – but how to retrace my steps and make amends? ‘The White Queen’ has turned out to be the answer – even now, I still think it’s one of the most beautiful songs I’ve ever heard.

 

                                                                                                                

 

   

                       SOME  THOUGHTS TO SHARE                

 

01 Sept .04: Orthodox Christian Day of Prayer for Creation

 

This grass is an icon; this stone is an icon; and I can kiss it, venerate it, because it is filled with God's grace.

Fr Paissios

 

        The world is not only a gift, but a task for man. 

 Fr Dimitru Saniloae

 

 

 

September 2004: At the time of the war in Kosovo, a Serbian Orthodox monk named Sava who was based there was asked 'Whose side is God on in this conflict? to which he replied 'God is on the side of the suffering people'.

 

 

30 September 2004: Gaelic Blessing (read at a wedding I recently attended in Scotland):

Deep Peace of the running wave to you.
Deep Peace of the flowing air to you.
Deep Peace of the quiet earth to you.
Deep Peace of the shining stars to you.
Deep Peace of the gentle night to you.
Moon and Stars pour their healing light on you.
Deep Peace to you.

 

 
27 Nov 04: I stumbled on this while I was looking for another quote. 
I think it's really good:
 
After several decades of working with people, listening to 
them, teaching them and counselling them, I have made the 
following observations: 



The joyful people are those who are generous and kind; the 


miserable people are those who are selfish and unforgiving.


The problem solvers are those who are powered by faith and 


optimism; the problem people are those whose lives are drained 


by doubts and pessimism. 


The winners are those who have learned to take full 


responsibility for their actions; the losers are those who have 


a handy excuse for their failures. 


Troubles come to pass; they do not come to stay.


Most of us are greater than we dare to believe.


The simplest person can see God's hand in nature; the wise 


person can see God's face in his fellow man. 





                                             William Arthur Ward


 



31 Dec 04
A person who talks about his inferiors hasn't any.





                                                  Hawaiian Proverb


28 Jan 05

Wisdom Of Forgiveness (A Song by Vusi Mahlasela, a South African musician)

Here lies the wisdom

The wisdom of forgiveness

With bright colours of life

A gift to all humanity

 

Here lies the power

The power of love

With the soulful understanding

Of necessity for a change

 

Why all these compromises

When we know what to do

Let’s take the spear

And put it right inside this evil monster

Learn to be free

And learn to be in harmony

With the rest of the world

Learn to be free

 

Why all these compromises

When we know what to do

Let’s take the spear

And put it right inside this evil monster

So we can learn to be free

Learn to be free, free, free

So we can learn to forgive

Because an eye for an eye 

Will only lead our world to blindness

 

 

31 Jan 05

 

Love and hatred were walking down a heavy road.
Love was sweetly singing for she did not mind her load.
Hatred looked across and said, "You make me sick to death"!
But, love just kept on walking while the wind stole hatred's breath.


Jim Capaldi

 

 

18 Feb 05

 

As it's been St. Valentine's Day this week, I'm presenting Shakespeare's Sonnet XXX.

 

When to the sessions of sweet silent thought
 I summon up remembrance of things past,
 I sigh the lack of many a thing I sought,
And with old woes new wail my dear time's waste:
Then can I drown an eye, unused to flow,
 For precious friends hid in death's dateless night,

And weep afresh love's long since cancelled woe,
 And moan the expense of many a vanished sight:
 Then can I grieve at grievances foregone,
 And heavily from woe to woe tell o'er
 The sad account of fore-bemoaned moan,
 Which I new pay as if not paid before.
But if the while I think on thee, dear friend,
 All losses are restor'd and sorrows end.

 

(For a paraphrase, click on the link below):

http://www.shakespeare-online.com/sonnets/30detail.html

 

 

05 Mar 05   Quotations from Ralph Waldo Emerson:

 

(For background information, click here).

 

Don't be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.

Democracy becomes a government of bullies tempered by editors.

 

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

 

Let not a man guard his dignity, but let his dignity guard him.

 

Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.

 

Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.

 

Speak what you think today in hard words and tomorrow speak what tomorrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said today.

 

Sometimes a scream is better than a thesis.

 

He who is in love is wise and is becoming wiser, sees newly every time he looks at the object beloved, drawing from it with his eyes and his mind those virtues which it possesses.

 

A man builds a fine house; and now he has a master, and a task for life; he is to furnish, watch, show it, and keep it in repair, the rest of his days.

 

 

The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.

 

Nothing astonishes men so much as common sense and plain dealing.

 

To be great is to be misunderstood.

 

Hitch your wagon to a star.

 

Whoso would be a man must be a nonconformist.

 

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

 

People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of their character.

 

 

Our chief want in life is somebody who shall make us do what we can.

 

If I have lost confidence in myself, I have the universe against me.

 

Character is higher than intellect... A great soul will be strong to live, as well as to think.

 Insist on yourself; never imitate... Every great man is unique.

Great men are they who see that spiritual is stronger than any material force; that thoughts rule the world.

Progress of Culture. Phi Beta Kappa Address, July 18, 1867

 

I see that sensible men and conscientious men all over the world were of one religion.

Lectures and Biographical Sketches. The Preacher

God enters by a private door into every individual.

 

The only way to have a friend is to be one.



I hate quotations. Tell me what you know.

 

 

 

03 Jun 05    

 

Travel light and travel simple in your mind, through your world. I think that 
leaving spaces for things that you haven't planned is the real secret of life. 
You shouldn't lock yourself in too tightly. Always leave room for life to lock 
you into it, like being locked into a wave when you surf. Learn to live 
outside of yourself, without planning where the wave will take you.

Above all, you have to leave room in life to dream.


- Buffy Sainte-Marie

 

 

01 Oct 05

As the beginning of last month it was the Orthodox Church’s Day of Prayer for Creation (September 1), here are a couple of relevant items from ‘Of Earth and Elders’ – Visions and Voices from Native America by Serle Chapman:

  Extract from ‘A Postcolonial Tale’:

  Every day is a reenactment of the creation story. We emerge from dense unspeakable material, through the shimmering power of dreaming stuff.

This is the first world, and the last.

-          Joy Harjo, Creek, Poet and Musician

 

Mother Earth Speaks (from the album Once In A Red Moon Verse)

 

(Verse):

 

I shake I shout…from time to time…

But no attention…is paid to mind…

I fear for you…not just for me…

My heart beats on…why can’t you see…

 

(Chorus):

 

Don’t steal my thunder…Don’t break my heart…

I’m your mother…hear my beating heart…

Hear my beating heart…

 

Rape the land…you rape your mother…

Take the poison…from all my water…

Cut the trees…down to my soul…

Strip my body…of all its oil…

 

(Chorus):

 

Don’t steal my thunder…Don’t break my heart…

I’m your mother…hear my beating heart…

Hear my beating heart…

 

-          Joanne Shenandoah

Iroquois Confederacy: Oneida Nation, Singer/Songwriter/Musician

 

 

October 2005

 

Come to me, says the Way.

The Way seems long

Because you cannot see the end.

But when you reach the end and look back,

The way will seem so very short,

And you will see that you could never have known happiness

Unless you had known that sadness,

That sadness of following the way that seemed so long.

 

You will be thankful.

You will be glad that things happened just as they did,

That they are just as they are.

You will be thankful in the harbor,

If only you can endure to the end.

 

‘Christ the Eternal Tao’, Chapter 43, by Hieromonk Damascene

 

 

 

20 Jun 06

 

(From my original site)

'LEISURE'

 

What is this life, if, full of care,

We have no time to stand and stare.

 

No time to stand beneath the boughs

And stare as long as sheep or cows.

 

No time to see, when woods we pass,

Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.

 

No time to see, in broad daylight,

Streams full of stars, like skies at night.

 

No time to turn at Beauty's glance,

And watch her feet, how they can dance.

 

No time to wait till her mouth can

Enrich that smile her eyes began.

 

A poor life this if, full of care,

We have no time to stand and stare.

 

 

 by Wm. Henry Davies (1871-1940).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

03 Sep 06

 

To commemorate the Orthodox World Day of Prayer for Creation, Sep 1:

 

 

Only after the last tree has been cut down,
Only after the last river has been poisoned,
Only after the last fish has been caught,
Only then will you find out that
money cannot be eaten

 

~Cree Prophecy~ 

 

18 Mar 07: (I met Harry Chapin briefly after a concert he gave at Leeds University Union in my first year there 1980-1. A few weeks later, at the age of only 38, he was killed in a car accident. I was recently in contact with his daughter, Jen, via myspace and told her the story - she thanked me for sharing! Below a famous quote from him):

Oh if a man tried

To take his time on Earth

And prove before he died

What one man's life could be worth

I wonder what would happen

to this world

Harry Chapin

 

 

31 Mar 07: 

 

I discovered this poem in an anthology and I think that it is absolutely great, as well as being particularly appropriate at the time of the 200th anniversary of the Act of Abolition of the slave trade::

 

CIVIL LIES

 

Dear Teacher,

 

When I was born in Ethiopia

Life began,

As I sailed down the Nile civilization began,

When I stopped to think universities were built,

When I set sail

Asians and true Americans sailed with me.

 

When we traded nations were built,

We did not have animals,

Animals lived with us,

We had so much time

Thirteen months made our year,

We created social services

And cities that still stand.

 

So teacher do not say

Colombus discovered me

Check the great things I was doing

Before I suffered slavery,

 

Yours truly,

 

                                 Mr Africa

 

 

Benjamin Zephaniah

 

 

 

26 Dec 07

 

With thanks to Lynn Carey Saylor for the following:

 

"A friend is someone who sees through you and still enjoys the view."

Wilma Askinas

8 June 08 - The Wisdom of Rumi (Mevlana)

I had the good fortune and privilege of going to Turkey in March and finding out about this thirteenth century Muslim mystic (Sufi), who was accepting of everyone. We visited Konya,the town most associated with him, where he is buried. He also wrote poetry, but here are some of his quotes:

Either seem as you are or be as you seem.

Come, come

Who or whatever you are

Should you be an unbeliever or a pagan still come

Our lodge is not a lodge of despair

With hundred repentances unheeded you may be, still, come.

 

Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the mystery, unique and not to be judged.

Load the ship and set out. No one knows for certain whether the vessel will sink or reach the harbour. Cautious people say, "I'll do nothing until I can be sure". Merchants know better. If you do nothing, you lose. Don't be one of those merchants who wont risk the ocean.

bulletWhen you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy.
bulletYour task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
bulletEveryone is so afraid of death, but the real sufis just laugh: nothing tyrannises their hearts. What strikes the oyster shell does not damage the pearl.
bulletConventional opinion is the ruin of our souls.
bulletWhatever possessions and objects of its desires the lower self may obtain, it hangs on to them, refusing to let them go out of greed for more, or out of fear of poverty and need.
bulletIf in thirst you drink water from a cup, you see God in it. Those who are not in love with God will see only their own faces in it.

18 July 2008 - Nelson Mandela's 90th Birthday

No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.

Nelson Mandela
Long Walk to Freedom

 

(Quoted at his inaugural speech in 1994):

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others

 

by Marianne Williamson from A Return To Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles

 

See also Vusi Mahlasela

 

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